Comments on: Turn around and walk the other way http://supermom.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/same-as-a-wall/ Super Mom Mon, 16 Nov 2009 19:48:57 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 By: angel http://supermom.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/same-as-a-wall/#comment-13154 angel Tue, 22 Jan 2008 16:30:50 +0000 http://supermom.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/same-as-a-wall/#comment-13154 aw mel... you sound like you could use a hug and a cup of coffee! i wish i had some magic sitcom words for you, but apparently the writers are on strike or something...? aw mel… you sound like you could use a hug and a cup of coffee!
i wish i had some magic sitcom words for you, but apparently the writers are on strike or something…?

]]> By: SIL http://supermom.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/same-as-a-wall/#comment-13140 SIL Mon, 21 Jan 2008 12:34:18 +0000 http://supermom.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/same-as-a-wall/#comment-13140 Mel. I just hate it to know that things are not looking up for you guys. It is so important to be happy with the peole around you. If those close to you can't make you happy, what then? You will never bring bad things onto yourself, you know that your children will feel your pain. I hope that you can talk some sense into this person, to just try and understand and listen to your feelings. Will be praying for you. Lovies Mel.

I just hate it to know that things are not looking up for you guys. It is so important to be happy with the peole around you. If those close to you can’t make you happy, what then? You will never bring bad things onto yourself, you know that your children will feel your pain.

I hope that you can talk some sense into this person, to just try and understand and listen to your feelings.

Will be praying for you.
Lovies

]]> By: Jaxie http://supermom.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/same-as-a-wall/#comment-13139 Jaxie Mon, 21 Jan 2008 12:28:26 +0000 http://supermom.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/same-as-a-wall/#comment-13139 this is really NOT ok. What's going on babe? this is really NOT ok. What’s going on babe?

]]> By: Jane http://supermom.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/same-as-a-wall/#comment-13138 Jane Mon, 21 Jan 2008 10:23:18 +0000 http://supermom.wordpress.com/2008/01/19/same-as-a-wall/#comment-13138 Sorry Mel. I know how hard that can be. I alternate between being very open about what I do/don't like and even saying 'don't treat me like that' and then I also realised years ago that sometimes instead of longing for someone to treat you the way you want to be treated, just start reacting the way you would if they WERE treating you in that way, and then they do start treating you the way you wanted. Harder to do, but gets a much better results. I KNOW how hard it can be. *HUGS* Sorry Mel.

I know how hard that can be.

I alternate between being very open about what I do/don’t like and even saying ‘don’t treat me like that’ and then I also realised years ago that sometimes instead of longing for someone to treat you the way you want to be treated, just start reacting the way you would if they WERE treating you in that way, and then they do start treating you the way you wanted. Harder to do, but gets a much better results.

I KNOW how hard it can be.
*HUGS*

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