Next time my in-laws phone to say they miss the kids and wants us to come visit, I will just call them big fat liars.
They go to visit their other grandson (they only have the 4 grandchildren) almost every weekend. It’s a longer trip there, than to us. They haven’t seen my kids in forever and even though my father-in-law was here on Zander’s birthday, he didn’t even come say happy birthday.
Yesterday I found out that they had slept over in town on Wednesday night and again didn’t come to see the kids!!!!! Come on!!!!
This upsets me on so many levels. My boys love them. Obviously..they are their grandparents. Yet they get treated like THIS? They don’t know but *I* know and it
pisses me off upsets me.
It must be horrible for my husband to know his parents care THIS little.
I will tell them if they ask us to come visit us again, that they are welcome to visit here if they really miss their grandchildren so much. I can’t go sit there and make as though everything is sunshine and roses….when in fact the relationship is nothing but desert and cactuses.
Kan mos nou nie so ‘n moordkuil van my hart maak nie. Which I suppose roughly means in English that I cannot keep the anger to myself…it will kill me. I should rather just
kick, shout and tantrum let them know how I feel.