Super Mom

Let it not be in vain

I never did quite get it when people said: “Let their death not be in vain”.  How could there ever be good in anyone’s death. 

I feel differently now. 

I have been a member of an online group for 8 years now.  We all ‘met’ when we were pregnant with our children who are now 7.  We share things there that we often don’t even share with family.  Sometimes we drift away from the group but always come back.  We always have a connection.  We know each other’s children.  We have seen them grow.

Now one of our friends passed away. 

From breast cancer. 


Now there’s a husband without a wife.  Two gorgeous, sweet children without a mother.

Let this be a reminder to all of us to go for breast exams.  Try and catch that awful cancer before it’s too late.  When you don’t feel like going, just think of this mother.  This mother that would give anything to be with her children for just one more day.  Children would give anything to be with their mom just one more day.

Goodbye Paula



7 responses

  1. Gosh how sad…

    October 12, 2009 at 8:26 pm

  2. I’m so sorry 😦

    October 12, 2009 at 11:23 pm

  3. Panni

    Very, very sad.

    October 13, 2009 at 8:56 am

  4. Wenchy

    Nee sjoe. As sulke dinge gebeur, dink ek altyd aan jou… en my… en wil tog glad nie sonder jou nie.

    Soos die son.

    October 13, 2009 at 10:12 pm

  5. Moaning Myrtle

    its so sad!

    October 15, 2009 at 5:11 pm

  6. Mom Archer

    May she rest in peace xxxxxx

    October 16, 2009 at 5:17 pm

  7. My condolences Mel.

    October 19, 2009 at 10:17 pm

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